If you ignore criticism, you will end in poverty and disgrace; if you accept correction, you will be honored. (New Living Translation)
Here are three important lessons I have learned about criticism:
1. Most criticism contains at least a measure of truth. This is why it stings! A key to learning from criticism is to sincerely search for any element of truth it may contain. Distinguish between criticism that merely distorts or exaggerates your faults and that which is outright fabrication or slander. Learn from the former and ignore the latter!
2. Much wisdom can be gained by searching for any truth in criticism. This can be very hard to do when it comes from an opponent or enemy because of our emotions and past history with the people involved, but evaluating all criticism objectively yields rich dividends.
3. Criticism from our closest friends can be the most painful, but also the most profitable. Proverbs 27:6 is worth remembering in this regard: “Wounds from a friend can be trusted. (NIV)” Always remember that when a friend criticizes you, they are only trying to help you. I love the way the most common French version of the Bible renders this verse, “Les blessures d’ un ami prouve sa fidélité,” literally, “The wounds of a friend prove his faithfulness.”
When you receive this email, I encourage you to pray this prayer,
“Father, Help me learn from my critics. Give me an open mind to any truth that may be in what they have to say, even if they are biased or unfair. Guard my heart from any effort of the enemy to discourage, distract, or defeat me through gossip or slander. Help me grow through criticism and never retaliate just because it hurts. In the name of Jesus, Amen!”
Pastor Mark
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